Who I Am/ Under Pressure

One thing I can't stand is when people try to force a personality on me. Ever since I got home two days ago my older brother has been trying to tell me who I am. "Oh you're a country girl" or "Oh you're a Redneck" No, I'm not! Why do you think I hate country so much. Everyone has been forcing it on me just because everyone else in this town likes it. I'm not a country girl I'm not a Redneck. Sure I like Do-it-yourself projects and horse riding and all that jazz but that doesn't mean everything. Let me be who I am not who you THINK I am. Leave the personality classifying to the people who actually know me. And another thing; just because I went to college does not mean that I'm engaged or am going to get engaged anytime soon. Would I like to? Sure that'd be great. Am I in any hurry? NO! so stop pressuring me about it. I'm well aware that everyone else in town my age is getting engaged already and whatever but I'll get engaged when I get engaged so just chill okay? Every time I turn around someone is asking when I'm going to get engaged and all that. It will happen whenever God wants it to happen and apparently that's not happening yet. Do I have someone in mind? well...yeah but I've made my interest clear. I'm not going to badger him about it like everyone is insisting that I do. Who knows maybe we'll talk about it when we feel ready but I'm happy with the way things are right now I'm already so blessed just having him in my life, I'm letting God handle it from here, He helped me get this far, if it's meant to work out he'll help it the rest of the way too.