Frustrations

This has been bugging me for two days now, I need to get it out. Two days ago I got back from visiting Trevin and the first thing I get the second I walking in the door is yelled at. I express my feelings about what happened to Trevin, who then expressed his concerns to my mom who later came down and said we needed to talk and she told me what was going on. ten minutes later mom and I are still talking and Dad pokes his head in and says I seem upset...ok seeming upset is like when Trevin points out that I have that look I get when I need to cry. When I am already crying? Obviously I'm upset, no seeming about it, we talk a minute about what happened then somehow the conversation changes to Trevin and how my dad doesn't like him because:

1. The Abby Thing: Okay, first off I didn't know Dad knew about that, second that was between me and Trevin and I forgave him for that because I was in a similar boat a few years ago.

2. Not carrying my stuff to Dad's friend's car: even if he had tried to I would have told him not to because then I would have felt really awkward, so in a way he saved me from a situation that was already awkward enough.

3. Having me pay him back for the hotel he booked for me: I would have done that anyway. That's how I was raised and I know he needs the money. He's already done a lot for me the least I can do is repay him for it

4. Referring to me as his friend: Trevin and I had this conversation, so I'm okay with it.

So basically I'm annoyed because my dad is making judgements without knowing the whole story and secondly telling me how I think, which has always been a pet peeve of mine. He told me that I think the world revolves around Trevin because I dropped everything to go see him. THAT WAS MY DECISION! I wanted to see him so I found a way to do so. I was willing to pay $150 to see him and he told me no. Just because he wanted to see me too does not mean I went because he wanted me to. I went because I wanted to.  

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